This morning, I woke up at 5am and was turning and tossing on bed trying my best to fall asleep. I guess I was too nervous about my exams later in the day. But I survived and I passed all cleared all the required exams! Yay!
Lying in the dark and quiet room (not exactly quiet because silly boy was just snoring beside me), I started to think about my future. I met P the other night and we were talking about how I should find a companion, not necessarily has to be a bf or husband. A was also telling me the same thing and how I will benefit psychologically in long run.
But its never easy. There are approximately 7 billion people in this world!! How am I suppose to find someone who has the same frequency as me, understands me, love me, share the same level for the love of dog, love eating, doesn’t think I’m fat and ugly……and the list goes on. So the question is how do I find someone to spend the rest of my life with?
Many relationship and marriage failed because we expect our spouse to be the perfect one. We expect them to be the serious partner who plans about the perfect future, the girlfriend or sister we bitch about everything with, the fun partner where you can have all the fun with. But how many of them can be all 3 in 1? Heck, we can’t even be the perfect wife ourselves.
And my mind started to wander far far away at the time of 5:23am. I started picturing what my perfect guy be like. To be honest I have never ever ever thought about this before because I never believe there’s one. But it’s still fun!
So let’s start the list!
1) Cute smile!
He needs to have a cute smile with nice teeth! I’m a sucker for guys with cute smile like Ryan Gosling! Totally melts my heart. How can you resist a guy who looks so cute! I kinda dislike guys who thinks that they look more cool when they don’t smile.
2) Loves to eat!
Lesson learnt, always date someone who loves to eat and is adventurous with food. There’s nothing better than dating someone who lives to eat.
3) Someone who is open
By that I meant someone who will let me read them like an open book. It’s always better to be with someone who does not hide things from you. It kinda sucks when you date someone who you can’t understand or know what they are thinking. It’s tiring to constantly guess what is on their mind. I will never date someone who is like a thumb drive, one that isn’t easily readable and hidden files are possible. Communication is also important. There’s no point being with someone who doesn’t wanna communicate with you.
4) A guy who knows how to take care of himself
This is one damn important point. Every single one has to know how to take care of himself or herself. A guy who is independent and knows how to take care of himself is sexy! nuff said.
5) Knows how to love
Maybe I’ve always been with the wrong guy but I’ve always been with someone who is afraid to love. Or maybe afraid to shows that he loves someone. So….I’ll never ever date someone who is afraid to show that he loves.
6) Dog lover!
He has to be a dog lover! No one will understand the bond between a man and a dog. The love cannot be replaced by anyone else. I always feel dog owner are less self centered. How do you keep thinking about yourself when there’s a wagging tail and a happy smiley dog face telling u to feed me feed me!
The list can goes on and on…But I’ll settle for this 6 criteria first and add on when I can think of any. Heh.
And if happen to really know someone who fits exactly all the above criteria, please tell me!😀